I remember when...
Someone would say something stupid or something that was unpopular, or something that was politically incorrect, and people would say "Well it's a free country..."
Nobody says that anymore, because you can't say whatever you want anymore.
I remember that too, but--just to offer a counter-argument--there are some things that are "more free" than in the past, and I sometimes wonder about rose-colored glasses.
As an example, when I was a paramedic (and because I'm autistic with a near editic memory), I made an intetesting discovery.
If a man (for example) is having a heart attack, I discovered--because I reviewed lots of run reports--that if his wife came with us, I could use smaller dosages of cardiac meds to accomplish certian things.
I assume that thos is because I may have known the patient for 5 minutes, while his wife may have been with him for 20 years, and she knows more about keeping him calm than I do.
I liked the idea of using smaller doses of intravenous heart meds because these meds are powerful, and a smaller dose means less of a chance of a bad reaction . . . and an ambulance doesn't have the same resources as a hospital to deal with a bad reaction to a powerful medication.
I expanded these ideas to include the other half of a gay or lesbian couple under the theory that a paramedic must be nonjudgmental, and should extend similar standards to similar patients under similar circumstances, and this landed me in trouble with the many religious hospitals here in Florida that are "faith-based".
If anyone doubts this, then consider the case of Lisa Pond and Jackson Memorial Hospital.
Basically, these lesbians were together for 18 years, and the hospital refused to allow the partner to visit the dying patient to say goodbye despite there being power-of-attorney paperwork in place.
This is because "Florida is an anti-gay state" per the social worker and charge nurse who were running the show.
I can't imagine anything like this happening now, as there would be lawsuits, protests, and so forth . . . and this is for the better.
No one could see that I was trying to follow an ethics statement that I signed off on to get my license, and that me treating patients equally wasn't an endorsement of the gay lifestyle.
I'm glad that no paramedic could be put in that position now.