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Brent S

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I have always been a saver and had the long game in sight. That dosent mean I haven’t enjoyed life by any means, but that I always considered the future as well. I have a brother in law that’s my age, still shy of 60. He recently went to the doctor for the first time in 10 years. His PSA, (a prostate health indicator) was off the charts. Long story short, with each Dr’s visit the news just keeps getting worse. It’s aggressive, has spread and isn’t looking good long term. I haven’t been close with him at all, but know what my sister will go through with treatments, economic and emotional stresses. I’ve seen several go through bad prostate cancer, my own father included, and it’s no fun.
so, there are two morals here for me. The first, as indicated by the post title, don’t forget to enjoy each and every day. There are no guarantees of anything beyond the here and now. Yes, I still believe in long range goals, just don’t focus so much on them that you forget to enjoy today.
the other moral is no matter how good you feel, or how young you are, go and get a physical each year. Many issues can be caught early and treated without much concern. ignoring your health can bite you in the ass, more so than any economic or other issues in life.
 
Yup. I knew 2 people who were near retirement age, but they kept on plodding away at work. I kept after them to retire now and enjoy life. Both of them died mid year. Bummer. That permanent retirement.
My other brother in law is planning to work until at least 72. To maximize his SS benefits. He is in good health, but as described above, there’s no guarantee that will last. They are fairly wealthy already, at least enough where the SS won’t make any real difference anyways. I’ve advised he enjoy now more while he has the energy, but we all have to do things as we see fit.
 
Members of Congress can retire at 62 after only 5 years service, at age 50 after 20 years service or at any age after 25 years service.
I’m sure they voted for their own benefit package
 

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