I grew up in the 40's, 50's, and 60's.
I guess you get to grow up in 3 decades when you're born near the end of a decade!
I had a real-life "canned dogfood encounter."
Long-story-short, I was on a 5-day R&R touring a lighthouse in a place called Vũng Tàu
when I was in Vietnam in 1969.
A soldier I met at that lighthouse ended up getting back to the States the same time I did,
and being a nice guy, (!) I borrowed a car and gave him a ride from Fort Bragg
to see his folks in a tiny NC town called Conover.
Holy cow...I had no concept of what poverty was (in a 1st world nation)
until I saw his family!
They must have been renting the house or maybe inherited it, but it was just ghostly gray ALL over and had this layer of dust on every surface inside and out. The windows were all wide open, the paint was nonexistent, and there was NO furniture whatsoever in that house.
We got there about the time the sun was starting to set and there were no lights.
We walked around room to room calling out, but no one was there.
Shortly after we got there, there were suddenly a bunch of people on the front porch.
Most were carrying what looked to me like trash bags. A couple were carrying bent up metal pails with what looked like empty dog food cans.
We were greeted with a shower of hellos and back pats as I was introduced to his sisters, brothers, cousins, and his parents. I'd say there were at least 15 of them!
It was dark enough that I was able to hide my horror as I saw some of them using pocketknives, old bent up spoons, and forks to scrape out and share any food that remained in what looked like dog/cat/tuna/spam all kinds of apparently not completely empty cans.
They were all super nice, and they peppered us with questions about the war, and then about me and my family, and "was that really my car?" (no, I had borrowed it from another buddy!)
After a couple of hours of sitting on the front porch, our feet dangling over the edge, they started to go inside and were apparently laying on rags in what constituted the bedrooms in this house. (I had seen the piles of rags in the rooms inside before people started showing up.)
By the way, I never asked to use their restroom, but I'm pretty sure they were using an outhouse.
Originally, I had intended to spend the night at his house, but after
I was propositioned by not one, but by two of his sisters or cousins to come sleep with them,
I said "thanks but I had to visit another buddy but I'd be back to pick him up in two days" so we could return to duty.
I parked the car in some random store's parking lot, locked the doors, cracked the windows, and slept on the bench seat in the back. Until I picked him up, I just drove around the Hickory area. When I picked him up, I thanked his family for the evening we'd spent on the porch, shook his father's hand and I slipped him every dollar I had on me except for what I knew I'd need for gas.
I could see the mix of confusion, gratitude, and shame in his eyes, as he gripped my cash.
I could only imagine the weight on that man's shoulders.
He thanked me for looking out for his son - like I had protected him in Vietnam - I hadn't.
But his boy was in the Army, and he was alive, and doing OK...better than OK.
I never mentioned any of this to him on our way back to Bragg and I lost touch with him soon after that.
What I has seen, was poverty right here in our country I could not have imagined.
At least they had a roof over their heads, but no food, no beds, their clothes were rags, their bodies stained brown from living in squaller.
Thankfully, I've never lived in such desperation.
We can be politically smug and say the people losing their jobs "deserve it,"
but I wish only the best for them,
and I hope the loss of their livelihoods will not throw them into homelessness.
I don't wish that on anyone.