I got called Karen yesterday. I'm laughing about it.
Dog parks have signs with their rules on them. But who reads? I'd bet if we really surveyed people, we would find out that 90% of people don't read anything, or if they do, very little.
I take two dogs, friends not from the same household, to a dog park, together. One, a male, is a very friendly dog with people and other dogs, except huskies and in tact (unneutered) male dogs. We walked into the park and there were a group of dogs swarming together. Z goes over and is in the sniff mode with the other dogs and all of a sudden he is showing teeth, is growling, and his hackles are up. I know him and this is a reaction to an unneutered male dog. Without even looking at the other dogs, I say, "Oh, oh, Z, there must be an unneutered dog here." There were two unneutered dogs, maybe actually more, and one was trying to hump Z. A woman who is the owner of one of the dogs says, "They'll work it out." I respond, "Maybe, or maybe it will get ugly." I did not say anything more about unneutered dogs are not allowed in dog parks, go read rule #4 on the rules on the board, or anything else. I sure could have gone on and on, but I had already said more than I ever do. I never want to fight with people or engage in negative conversations. I go sit down and there is a woman I know at one of the tables who had also just come in. She heard the whole thing. The people with the unneutered dogs leash up and leave, of their own accord, and my dogs have run off to do their business. One of the women says, "Well, Karen, you are one of the reasons that dogs parks are not good." I said nothing. My back was to her. I wasn't going to turn around and engage her. What good what it have done? They were already ignorant enough to bring their unneutered dogs there. Anything I would have said would not have gotten through to them.
What happens when there are unneutered dogs in dog parks? Fights!!! Why? dominance and establishing territory. Don't want to neuter your dog? I have no problem with that, but then don't take them to a dog park!
After they left, the other woman talked about how this is on the list of rules on the board. That doesn't matter. They were not likely to read all of those words, and they wouldn't have cared anyway, because many people do what they want to do, rules or not.
First time I've been called Karen. I have been told I was rude when I was video recording someone who was on my property when I told him to leave. What I supposed to be insulted by that? I wasn't. I am never insulted when the truth is on my side.