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I'm just tossing an idea out there. There is a lady that works part time in one of our local establishments. I have gotten to know her a bit just through normal business interactions. She's a sweet soul who I would consider a friend, albeit not a really close friend. She's been to my house once for a party. We have similar political and religious beliefs and could probably talk for hours if given the chance. I could easily see our friendship growing over time.
Anyways.....she suffered a serious medical event recently and doctors still haven't been able to determine exactly what caused it. She didn't get the vax, so it wasn't that. The only thing they could come up with was that it was an issue caused by a prescription med that she took. She is still not fully recovered (but at least out of the hospital) and hasn't been cleared to go to work so she's been without income going on a month now. Her insurance isn't going to be enough to do much good with her medical expenses since it didn't kick in until after she had been shuffled to several different hospitals. She's in a tough spot and hasn't asked for help. However, I AM going to help her. I was just going to give her cash but I'm seriously considering doing some sort of event for her. I know that's going to be a LOT more work than just giving her money, but I also know she'd get more money from that.
I was considering doing a fish fry or spaghetti dinner but I have never put on a dinner before and wouldn't have a clue on how much food to get or who to get to help. Then I considered doing a euchre tournament and asking local vendors to contribute so I could put together prize packages and/or use those prizes for bucket raffles. I want to do it at a local hall so that I could shoot for a Saturday afternoon with an open bar and have the school sports boosters come and sell refreshments. I'm thinking the boosters could keep their snack profits and the hall could keep the alcohol profits. Perhaps even the people who run the hall would let us rent the place for free. I will ask.
I think my first step is asking the gal I want to do this for if she is OK with it and if so, what information is OK to share. For example, I wouldn't want to tell vendors she didn't have health insurance if she wasn't allright with people knowing that. Also, I wouldn't want to share anything about her condition that she didn't want out there. If anyone has put on an event similar to this, could you share your experience with it....both good and bad. Thank you!
Anyways.....she suffered a serious medical event recently and doctors still haven't been able to determine exactly what caused it. She didn't get the vax, so it wasn't that. The only thing they could come up with was that it was an issue caused by a prescription med that she took. She is still not fully recovered (but at least out of the hospital) and hasn't been cleared to go to work so she's been without income going on a month now. Her insurance isn't going to be enough to do much good with her medical expenses since it didn't kick in until after she had been shuffled to several different hospitals. She's in a tough spot and hasn't asked for help. However, I AM going to help her. I was just going to give her cash but I'm seriously considering doing some sort of event for her. I know that's going to be a LOT more work than just giving her money, but I also know she'd get more money from that.
I was considering doing a fish fry or spaghetti dinner but I have never put on a dinner before and wouldn't have a clue on how much food to get or who to get to help. Then I considered doing a euchre tournament and asking local vendors to contribute so I could put together prize packages and/or use those prizes for bucket raffles. I want to do it at a local hall so that I could shoot for a Saturday afternoon with an open bar and have the school sports boosters come and sell refreshments. I'm thinking the boosters could keep their snack profits and the hall could keep the alcohol profits. Perhaps even the people who run the hall would let us rent the place for free. I will ask.
I think my first step is asking the gal I want to do this for if she is OK with it and if so, what information is OK to share. For example, I wouldn't want to tell vendors she didn't have health insurance if she wasn't allright with people knowing that. Also, I wouldn't want to share anything about her condition that she didn't want out there. If anyone has put on an event similar to this, could you share your experience with it....both good and bad. Thank you!