We have hundreds of Doves around our house. One nested in our patio cover, and soon there were 3 eggs. Mom and Dad patiently say of the eggs for a week, until a Scrub Blue Jay started pestering them. They have now abandoned the nest and eggs. It has been 4 days without laying on their eggs. Is it safe to assume the eggs are now dead? Is it time to remove the nest and eggs and toss them into the trash?