sold plasma, did craiglist work gigs, flew a sign at intersection, did day labor during the summer. He used the 15k to go find a Filipina dentist. Now she's here, clearing 40k per year as a dental hygienist, attending dental college (half time) getting 6k per year school loans, and paying him 35k per year (cash). So he'll end up about 100k to the good, for having suffered for a couple of years. It took him 3 months to decide that she'd be honorable, and then 6 months more to get the paperwork done to get her here. He also had to pay for her to be tutored in English during that time, so that she could pass the "TOEFL" English test, required to enter college (and get loans and grants) here in the US.