... Now I get in trouble for doing my stuff cuz my wife accuses me of "not wanting to spend time with her" even if I'm just in the kitchen doing dishes instead of sitting on the couch playing on my computer while she watches tv. Then I get accused of ignoring her because I'm on the computer instead of talking to her. Then I try talking to her about the news, politics, preparedness or something and she'll tell me she doesn't want to hear anything about it...
Buy and read the book "The 5 Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. Explains a lot about relationships. Plus women are ...
1. Words of affirmation
2. Quality Time (mine)
3. Receiving gifts
4. Acts of service
5. Physical touch