Lindy, hon, if Alabaster hasn't already done this I'll tell you how to talk to him privately. Right click your mouse on his name at one of his posts. You will get a box that will come up in the middle of your screen and you will have an option called 'Start a Conversation' at about the middle of the box, right above the line. Click that and you will get another window popped up and now you can start sending him information privately. Hope this helps.
Dear old_anorak,
Between learning this forum computer stuff and just scratching the surface of Prepping it is overwhelming. Thanks for your gentleness in helping me. I will try what you said tomorrow. I am very tired hopefully I can get some refreshing sleep. I hope that for you to. Good night, blessings!