Redundant cashes are the only answer I've found for the main problem. Rocky mountain trappers did the same in the 1830's. Real opsec, if plan A goes out the window... It's best to have a plan B, C, D, E, etc.
Redundant cashes are the only answer I've found for the main problem. Rocky mountain trappers did the same in the 1830's. Real opsec, if plan A goes out the window... It's best to have a plan B, C, D, E, etc.
When I read this, at least one person comes to mind, who, for as long as I have known her, has excuses about why she can't do this and can't do that. It is someone I worked with about 20 years ago, and now participates in the crafting group I am involved with.
One night after a series of, "No, I don't have computer skills, so I can't do that," and "No, I can't do that," over and over again, I stopped trying to help her with what she asked for help with. After she left, I spoke to other very capable members about how, "I think I can," but I am not going to do it for someone who "can't" to everything. It is a welfare mentality and she is someone who spends her days and life working the system. This is the kind of thinking that has been developed in many families over generations. Welfare has disabled so many, mentally. There is so much more to this story, but I will not bore you with the details.
I have known too many people who always have an excuse about why they can't, while I always try to find the way to do it, for myself and for my daughter, another very independent person who thinks she can do whatever she sets her mind to do.
What can I bring to the table? Like AmishHeart, I can cook and teach. I can sew, mend, clean, garden, and much more.
Everyone can do something.
So, in keeping with the theme of this thread...NO handouts from my house. There may be exceptions, such as...
The only handout from me might be a recipe for cricket stew. And, would they like a taste of it???
Ha ha people already suspect that I ain't right, and that would remove all doubt. (Lookit dat crazy old woman, grubbin in dirt again. Wonder if she's gonna eat it?)
Ha ha ha ha!!!!! I'll need to perfect my crazy old lady cackle...heh heh heh...
. I just know if we all fall into our own bunker mentalities we lose some. of our humanity. If we are not extrememely cautious we risk everything. I understand that people need to be responsible for themselves, yet everyone needs a hand with something sometime.B.O.B. I fully understand your struggle. I really wish I could present an alternative to this problem, but I have not found one. My only hope is that I will be far enough off the beaten track to not have to use my preparation and defenses. Survival can be a double edged sword, your survival at the cost of somebodies else's not surviving. I have looked at this part of the problem but have never found a safe way to help others without endangering my family / group. I would be thrilled if somebody wiser than me can help out in this area, it is just beyond me.
@BugoutBob May I suggest that the decision of donating is a personal decision? Whether to donate and how much to donate depends on individual perspectives, individual circumstances (many who wish to donate may not have the means), and a host of other factors. What makes sense for me may lead to catastrophe for you, and vice versa. It’s a highly subjective personal decision with no clear standard. You have to decide what is right for you and yours - nobody can set the standard for you. That is what makes the decision such a struggle. I personally wrestled with it for years. Hope you can come to a conclusion either way sooner than I did
One more point: I would recommend making the decision before the situation presents itself and stick to that decision once made. When someone knocks on your door looking for a handout, tensions and emotions will run high - not a great time for clear and logical thought. So make the decision beforehand and stick to it.
B.O.B. I fully understand your struggle. I really wish I could present an alternative to this problem, but I have not found one. My only hope is that I will be far enough off the beaten track to not have to use my preparation and defenses. Survival can be a double edged sword, your survival at the cost of somebodies else's not surviving. I have looked at this part of the problem but have never found a safe way to help others without endangering my family / group. I would be thrilled if somebody wiser than me can help out in this area, it is just beyond me.
@hiwall there is a little (or a lot) of mean old self centred in all of us. If you are like most cranky self centred SOB’s that I have met, there is a soft spot in the right circumstances even if gruffly given. Now if you a sociopath or psychopath that is nothing that a small lead tablet behind the ear judiciously applied can’t cure. I might have a soft heart but my momma didnt raise no dummies. So you be blessed you cantankerous mean old man ... I know you bless me with your writing.I can't help you, Bob because I am a mean old man so my views are somewhat self-centered.
Yes, warning people only tells them that you might be able to help them out in a SHTF situation. Lots of people may hear you, but will do little or nothing, except think of you when they need help.I used to feel the need to warn others. Word was out about me very quickly. I have since moved and no one at my old place knows where my new place is. No one at my new place knows that I prep. That is just the way it has to be. I have to be honest and say that anyone who shows up at my gate will be met at gun point. Luckily I live way out in the boonies. Most people around here are farmers in one way or another. They either raise livestock and/or have very large gardens. If the balloon went up I would guess that all ways into this area would be closed off to outside sources by locals and all inside the perimeter would care for each other as long as it was possible. Any extras to hand out will be shared through a local church. That already happens here.
Why not use simple dry sand sand? Has been used for a century.Not sure is this is the appropriate thread, but if not, one of the Mods can relocate it. "Ceramic balls" are touted as being the ballistic doorstop for incoming lead....why not use crushed ceramic tile, instead? Less expensive, available locally, and apparently would do just as good a job at stopping incoming rounds. Any thoughts?
Not sure is this is the appropriate thread, but if not, one of the Mods can relocate it. "Ceramic balls" are touted as being the ballistic doorstop for incoming lead....why not use crushed ceramic tile, instead? Less expensive, available locally, and apparently would do just as good a job at stopping incoming rounds. Any thoughts?
and people spend thousands on steel plates when all they needed was to go to the beach! Now to figure out how to lug a 6" barrier of sand around a person that'd be a neat trick.I think that 6" of sand will do what you wish and will cost way less. Here is a link to the Box-O-Truth. There are many interesting and educational pages on that site but the link should take you right to this answer.
https://www.theboxotruth.com/the-box-o-truth-7-the-sands-o-truth/
Living in a neighborhood, I do talk a little about prepping with my neighbors, because if SHTF, I don't have a farm or bug-out to go to. Instead, I talk to them about being prepared for the things that we can experience- forest fires, big snowstorms, things like that. I also have quizzed my neighbors on their resources, so I know who has generators, who has old running cars, who has guns, who has what skills, etc. I know who cans and what equipment they have, and on and on. If something happens, I don't want to survive in isolation- my neighbors are all in to work together to keep all of us safe. I also have talked about prepping with the girls in my office, who also prep to a degree. We don't share quantities, etc, but we do share skills. One girl is Mormon, and she has shared a lot of information with the rest of us on food storage, getting items from the local Bishop's Storehouse, etc. Of course, every one of my neighbors and co-workers also knows I am perfectly capable of defending what I have. I've had a few of my neighbors come to the range with us, and so they know first hand I am not kidding when I tell them I can handle a weapon. I don't advertise prepping, but I think OPSEC can be a bit overdone sometimes. I prefer to think of prepping as a lifestyle, and I want to encourage as many of my friends and neighbors to live that lifestyle as possible.
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