I agree with most of what you wrote.
You are wise for your apparent years.
I ask that you reconsider your evaluation of your fellow. They want to survive as well but just don't know how to do it. Don't hide your light under a basket.
Ben
I'm over 40 so not exactly too young to have some wisdom.
By far, the most common reaction when I try to tell people how to survive is "I wouldn't want to live if that happened so there is no point in preparing for it"
Sadly, I think almost all of them are lying to themselves. Working as an EMT, I've never seen anyone in real danger who wanted to die, they have always begged to be saved. The only people I've seen who have told me to just let them die, have been the ones in no danger of death.
Most of the attempts I've made to educate people have resulted in hostility, and outright censorship. I've been threatened, doxxed, and finally, banned from other survival forums.
I have a seemingly rare viewpoint when it comes to survival discussions. I've often heard people complain when someone tells them "Doing that will just get you killed", while for my part, those are the people who I pay the most attention to, and something I am likely to say myself to others.
But most people on forums seem to look for validation of what they are already doing rather than criticism and advice on what they should be doing.
And to be fair, I have no way to prove I am doing it right. I can't even prove that to myself.
Which is a major problem in any kind of community building pre-SHTF. You will have more opinions on how to do something than you will people.
Now, on the other side of the dying time, that is when I will be more interested in forming groups as everyone who makes it through, will be proven, and committed.