You never really know what you will "DO", till it is vividly real. And the option "But I DON'T Want to choose" is simply not an option. You will choose.So much fun here!
I'm with both of you. This would never have been me.
I am the eldest's of many children, and sadly vividly remember my mother's personal trap. By the late 50's she had six children, and likely carrying another child. I would have been roughly 13 y/o then.
We were often without food, for days. Mother would go to the church we attended and ask for $3.00 or $4.00 to buy food for her children.
Long story short. Pastor Bob would have sex with my mother and her children were fed with $3.50. There is so much more to this account, but I am weeping and will stop.
The point is a mother will do anything to keep her children alive.