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I came here, in faith, following some who started here. I came from a forum that I joined to learn about preparedness.
I shut off lights when i left that forum that @UrbanHunter mentioned. He suggested I check this forum out. I like the members here.I followed a site about prepping for about 10 years, wrote a few articles and posted a lot. The site became unreliable and @Amish Heart suggested this one. I like the mix of topics and most of the folks here. Nice place to visit where you read, discuss, vent, and talk about almost anything without being hit with a ton of brick.
Weedy and Terri sent me links to here when PS went to For that , I thank them both.
We worked together to invite people over. We had a group PM where we discussed who to invite and we kept at it. Some people were invited more than once and never made the transition. Some people were never invited. It wasn't discussed about who not to invite, it was more about people we remembered or knew we wanted to be here. There was at least one person who responded so negatively to other people's comments, that I knew I wasn't inviting that person, and it appears that no one else did either. Some of us were banned from PS as a result of inviting others through PM's. The people who only read or rarely respond surely got lost in the transition. It is like anything, you have to participate in order to be known and be someone who is not annoying to others.Observation to consider...
Seems like many of the members found it by word of mouth.
The other forum I worked advertised to get members.
It may be a prudent idea to carefully chose who is invited in to keep the ambiance.
Ben
I belong to another forum that has gone through some changes in the last year. I have never been very active there, having joined in 2008 or so. It seemed to me that frequently when I posted there, someone would smack me down, respond to my comments in a very negative way. There are so many know-it-alls, and controlling types, it just shuts some people down and limits the people who are willing to participate. There are ways to share a difference of opinion without being hateful, imho.A friend belonged to another homesteading forum about 8 years ago. She said it was sometimes horrible how mean people could be. She vowed to never join another forum again. It came up in conversation recently so I thought I'd check it out. This forum also came up on the search so I checked it out. Seemed like this forum was "homey". I have enjoyed it so much!
Prepared Society. It is abysmal there now. I have seen months where there are less than 5 comments total for the month.What is PS? A lot of people mentioned that as their prior forum.
I still drop by KTOG every now and then and look in.I followed Phideaux. Originally from KTOG (Keltec Owners Group), then to TF (TalkFirearms), then to here. KTOG was originally a great forum - much like here. Then management changes kind of nuked it (it has rebounded a little bit, but is a hollow shell of it's former self). TF was never a fit for me, I always felt like an outsider and there was never a big draw to that forum for me. I was initially hesitant to come here, because I don't have a homestead, don't live out in the country, and was afraid I didn't have anything to offer. Well, that turned out to be true ... I still have nothing to offer. An occasional joke maybe, but other than that ... nada. I'm useless. I do like the people here very much though. Even the ones I get into minor arguments with. That's what makes a forum great for me - the people. It seems like around here we can start talking about almost anything, and just have fun doing that.
I was wondering too, thanks.Prepared Society. It is abysmal there now. I have seen months where there are less than 5 comments total for the month.
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