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I think a lot of it is lack of planning. I'm guilty of that sometimes too, so I keep some "quickie" frozen tenders, pizzas, pot pies, etc. in the freezer for those times. I don't use them very often, but even those "quickie" things beat running to the tavern or ordering out. I usually have a lasagna in there too, but those take 45 min to an hour to heat through. I make them on the hearty side. We don't like the store bought or restaurant lasagna's........yuck!
We eat at home most of the time b/c it just tastes better! Many times DH and I will be enjoying a meal and say "there's nowhere you're gonna get a meal like that in any restaurant"....and even if you could, it would cost you an arm and a leg. Last week we had venison tenderloin, morell mushrooms, and nice salad. Yummy! Nope - not gonna find that anywhere else! Today I have a roast in the crock pot for dinner tonight and tomorrow I will shred some of the leftover meat and make pulled beef sliders with some left over rolls we have to use up. There's at least 4 meals with just one roast since DH loves to eat that roast as leftovers right from the frig. I'll even make my own cakes and rice krispie treats b/c even those pre-packaged treats have a weird taste to them.
I agree. I think for many it is a lack of planning.
I had a student whose mother was sharp, Master's degree, organized, focused, driven, etc. Her son would come to school and had moments daily of staring into space, not able to concentrate, sleeping with his eyes open. I mentioned to her at parent teacher conferences that I thought he was often tired. What I didn't know was that she was told the same thing about her daughter at her conference. Children were in after care. Mom worked at least half an hour away. By the time they got home, it was always after 6:00 p.m. Now mom had to cook dinner, family time to eat, baths, maybe homework, and by the time they were done, it was 9:00 or later. Her children were not getting enough sleep because life was so busy. What did mom take away from parent teacher conferences? That she needed to change up evenings. She reached out to her friends for their favorite crock pot recipes. She got organized so that when they got home from the day, they could sit down to dinner, and have a much better evening, with children getting to bed much earlier.
Not everyone thinks like her. Not everyone can figure it out, or cares to figure it out. And sometimes we are so busy, we don't even have time to think about it. That was my life for many years while teaching. So busy, so much on my mind, so much to do. Home life always suffered at the expense of work. I have many regrets about it.