I like and respect the whole thing here of exploring ideas about getting a group together. I would get over the defensiveness though as getting along on a forum is a lot easier than doing it in a real shtf situation. Dealing with all types of personalities is a sign of a good leader. As far as the workers, or outdoorsmen, those skills will be among the most needed. My advice is learn to relate to the people that are the ones that can feed and protect you.
Hehehe, with an attitude like his the liklihood of him getting any of this.........
There will be a fair share of attractive women because people need heterosexual sex.
Is remote to zero, just sayin'