The Ladies

[d_marsh]

When you know, you KNOW!

May God bless you both in your wonderful life together. Congratulations!!!!!!

Thank you.

 

[Weedygarden]

She called her sister yesterday when we got home. She said something to the effect of 'this would have shocked me a year ago, but not so much anymore'. Then she talked about how much more focused and assertive the lady has become since we got together. She expressed happiness and wants to plan a small reception or party at some point.

Pops won't find out until we go see him next weekend to have early Thanksgiving. I am sure he will be just blink at me.

And then there is her ex and his wife! They will be soiling themselves because they know she can never be run over like they have done to her before. I'm sure there is more to this piece of life, but they will be so shocked as well.

When you know, you KNOW!

May God bless you both in your wonderful life together. Congratulations!!!!!!

Yes, when you know you do KNOW, and no one can tell you how this will be! You have to experience it for yourself! Both of them had said NEVER! Look at all his posts about marriage! But true love is true love! Too many people have settled when it comes to love.

 

[Patchouli]

That was pretty awesome.
Congratulations on everything.

 

[d_marsh]

That was pretty awesome.
Congratulations on everything.

Thank you.

 

[Bacpacker]

Not sure what else to say, other than congrats. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness

 

[d_marsh]

Not sure what else to say, other than congrats. I wish you both a lifetime of happiness

Thanks.

 

[d_marsh]

I forgot to post this:

 

[Pearl]

CONGRATULATIONS, great ring choice!!

 

[havasu]

I have to tell you this also caught me by surprise.

Congratulations, and hope for lifetime of happy memories!

 

[Pearl]

I'M FREE!! I knew for weeks, WOW that was a hard secret to keep!! Thank you Marsh for loving this lady and renewing her hope in men and life!!

 

[elkhound]

Congratulations....!!!!!

You done great !! More than great in fact !!

 

[d_marsh]

I have to tell you this also caught me by surprise.

Congratulations, and hope for lifetime of happy memories!

Congratulations....!!!!!

You done great !! More than great in fact !!

Thank you.

 

[d_marsh]

I'M FREE!! I knew for weeks, WOW that was a hard secret to keep!! Thank you Marsh for loving this lady and renewing her hope in men and life!!

For this reason alone I considered just not doing it and dragging it out for another 4-5 weeks.

 

[havasu]

Please tell me more about how you made that decision for that ring? I think it is really beautiful, but isn't there some bad juju associated with black diamonds, or did I hear wrong?

 

[d_marsh]

Please tell me more about how you made that decision for that ring? I think it is really beautiful, but isn't there some bad juju associated with black diamonds, or did I hear wrong?

I bought the lady a yin and yang necklace made from white and black rubies and she absolutely LOVED it. Wears it all the time and it quickly became our thing. She even bought herself matching black and white diamond earrings. So I decided I was gonna stay on theme.

The bigger back story to this is biblical. God said in Genesis 2:18 “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper as his complement.” The word helper in Hebrew is Ezer. While in English it means a simple assistant, in Hebrew it means a lot more. Vital and essential assistance, one who rescues and supports, a valued partner and most importantly: one who is strong where the other is weak. So the Christian version of yin and yang, one who completes the other. The two colored diamonds are meant to represent that as well as good times and bad, sickness and health, etc.

 

[havasu]

I love it. That is giving me an idea....

Thank you...really!