So Ive been thinking about this thread, who are we hiding from? My clan has never really been that much on running off.
Who are we hiding from is a really good question. I have always been a self-reliant type and the church I attend encourages the same... That being said, a long time ago there was a meeting discussing self-reliance and what to do in an emergency (Food shortage, kind of COVID thinking) and the husband of one of my wife's friends said, "I'm going over to Urban's house, I heard from my wife that he is well stocked for anything..." That day I laid down the law at my house, no one who is not a family member goes down the stairs.... The main floor was "sanitized" with a modest pantry, but nothing that would indicate there was anything more in the house...
So who are we hiding from? Well I don’t know about you, but I am hiding from those people who sit on their duffs and expect everyone else to meet their needs when times get tough. This may be neighbors, acquaintances, or strangers looking for easy access to resources that they want to or need. I may have sufficient resources set aside for my family but they would become quickly depleted if I set them on the front lawn.
I don’t mind helping others, but I think I would prefer to do it anonymously using a distribution point that was not connected to me. For example, I would not have a problem dropping off supplies at the side door to my church in the wee hours, and then letting the Pastor know that someone told me they were there for him to distribute.
When I was in college my family (married with 3 kids) would make food boxes for families that we knew were having trouble, we quietly placed them by their door mat, rang the bell and ran off into the night... We knew that we had done what we could without exposing ourselves or making the other family feel uncomfortable.