Hi Hj...im gonna have to agree with the guys on this...i really don't think that cutting your hair or trying to look like a man will help...i worry more so for my daughter for the same reason but truly believe that the only thing that would help in that situation would most definitely be a weapon....when people lose their minds it doesn't really matter what u look like....all u can do is be prepared...i guess some type of martial arts is always good to know....but ultimately i know i cant compare my strength to that of a man...n if he really wants to do me or my daughter any harm the only thing that's gonna save us is a bullet...
I am a firm believer in martial arts. I study Shaolin. The advantage of many styles is they are designed so that smaller stature people can handle there own. I have had my 5-4 wife put my 6-2, 220 pound ass on the ground on more than one occasion. Does everything work in every situation, of course not, but it does work. It does make you better equipped.do u run???like on a regular basis...its good to train n push your body running....rite now it keeps u in shape but u never know when u will have to run in a dangerous situation and for how long...although it seems like an easy enough task...if your not used to running...its not...poor diet, smoking, all these things factor in to how much our bodies r going to cooperate...lol...it comes down to a battle of the fittest....
Shaolin isn't the only game in town, but it is a good one as it doesn't require a lot of power like boxing, or shotokan karate.
aikido is another good one as it uses your opponent's weight and inertia against him. However, it is one of the more difficult ones to learn. This is the same style used by Steven Segal