In the past, when I was active on the local search n rescue team and worked at the sheriff dept, I had alot of gear n stuff . I lived in earthquake country and it is not uncommon to have a stash of water and supplies in case the big one hit.
I never really had many friends come around too much..I was always too busy working , training or enjoying my very little time to myself.
Occasionally..a few friends would ask to join me the next time I canned something to learn how to do it. Or they'd make comments like , "I should put back a few gallons of water too"..but they'd never do it.
Even today, at the community meetings i go too, my good friends (specific ones in mind) go, they are interested in learning the how to's and voice their opinion on the value of being prepared but have done very little preparation since these meeting started almost a year ago.
They are good people..they know they should but always prioritize other activities and fun hobby type expenses.
The good thing about the meetings is it is a constant reminder to those who need to get ready AND people are sharing interest n skills they know how to do with others while were building community n trust.
But all that said, I learned over the years not to really get into giving alot of advice out personally.
Most folks just are not willing to do what it takes.
It's a lifestyle and mindset that requires having goals , security minded boundries , financial commitments and all the time n energy that takes.
Personal abilities n issues, mental health , financial ability or limitations can throw things into gear or plans sideways so in my opinion, individuals really have to do their own planning n research to implement their plans.
So, I've found it best to just direct friends to websites so they can do their own research since I dont know all the variables in their life.
I've offered to teach friends canning before in the past but there is always a soccer game that day n folks dont show up. So, I stopped offering.
Since moving out here almost a decade ago, I really havent befriended very many folks that really really know me..for a reason. I have one gal pal n her husband that are dear friends but neither of them really know the depth of my interest in this regard.
So, I agree with sourdough in the opinion that many folks want someone to think it through for them.
I dont believe it's because they dont want to just think it through themselves, but perhaps more deeply rooted in the arena that involves many personal lifestyle factors , beliefs about the state of our world, our country and how we are conditioned to be lead in life instead of being our own leaders, and the overall committment to make it all happen.
Normalcy bias, social programming and social inclusiveness are strong weapons to keep the masses doing the same ol same ol to fund those in power to do whatever they want.
And then there is the monkey wrench gangs out there ..I like that crowd better.