It's not that I think it's pointless exactly, it's more that I think its impossible to prepare for whats coming. That's all. I used to prepare for stuff like economic collapse also, but now that we are actually as prepared as I thought we could be, I am realizing it is impossible. I don't know how to exactly say that better. When we lived in the city, I thought we would be prepared if we moved to a farm in middle of nowhere. Now that we are here and been here for over 7 years I am realizing it is impossible.
Many people can't even live without modern medicine for example ( like your husband?). We can't farm without fuel and vehicle repairs. We could for a little while but eventually the hay will run out, and our old bodies will wear out doing everything by hand. We have no idea what is going to break in the buildings, so we can't really stock up for that either. We do have some plywood and 2 x 4s, and stuff like tarps, but right now I need stuff to fix the bathroom. YOu can't stock up on every potential item you need.
Water: we have free spring water, but what if a nuke down the road contaminates it? Storing a lot of water takes up a huge amount of space. Or what if it just dries up? You don't know what the crazy weather is going to do.
And if the poles flip or the nukes hit, most if not all of us will not survive regardless how much food you have.
I have been a prepper for many years and the older I get the more I realize it's pointless to think you will somehow survive by stocking up 5 years of food. That's all. It's also pointless to stock up on a gazzillion rounds of ammo, because few have a small army. Do you have a well? Your water will run out if you have no power to pump it. Gas will go bad if stored too long. And so on
Sorry this was long but like I said I have been a prepper for a really long time and I do think everyone should stock up on enough stuff for local events but anything more is not even realistic. Food goes bad, even canned stuff. Rotating it is a huge hassle, and personally I like fresh food, so for us total waste of money except a few things. I have enough rice stored for probably a year, same with sugar, salt and other stuff we use that really doesn't go bad. We have animals we can eat if there is no food. Discouraging, huh? LOL