Man, the flight from Hawaii to mainland US can really suck. I had to fly that a few times when going back and forth from mainland US to Singapore and Guam. Back then Continental Airlines was still around and they sucked bigtime. One of the times we were there they overbooked a flight by 132 people. They actually tried to unreserve my seat and were going to not let me on the flight even though my father bought the tickets 6months in advance. I was still a teenager at the time and he was NOT having it. He had them check and my ticket was sold before the other ticket and we were there before the other people. It was one of the few times Dad used his authority in law enforcement to push an issue. Flying that airline sucked though. They had the worst flight attendants I've ever met.
Meanwhile, my friend is apparently really desperate to get out of his current house to the point he wants to buy a house in another town. That would put him farther away and we'd see each other even less. His wife still wants the house in town. His daughter doesn't want to leave her school. And the other house hasn't been appraised yet and there are issues with some of the land having been illegally sold while it was under mortgage and neighbor has a pitbull running loose. It's closer to his work but I have a bad feeling about it.
I'm hoping things can still work out on the other house in town. Right now he's absolutely done with his mother's bs. She reneged on their verbal contract to sign the house over to him if he fixed it up and she now comes over every single day to take all the ice from the ice machine, raid the pantry/fridge, and she does her laundry and last time threw his clean wet clothes out of the machine and onto the floor. He gave her a washing machine so she should be able to do her laundry at her own place. It has doubled his utility bills. She just stomps all over boundaries and ignores him if he tries to set any. She also lords it over him that she babysits the 4-yr-old.
When his daughter was that age she was spending 80% of her time with his father and grandparents. His first ex was dumping the older kid on her father constantly. The daughter was also better behaved. The 4-yr-old acts like a 2-yr-old-- seems to be mentally at that stage bc he's developmentally hindered. He doesn't want to watch the 4-yr-old anymore bc he's annoying & he doesn't know how to deal with him. He wasn't raised properly and doesn't know how to be a parent. His parents didn't raise him. He was dumped with his grandparents, his father was more like a brother to him, his mom didn't have custody of him much-- she dumped him with her mother (well, technically her aunt bc her aunt adopted her when DCFS took her away from her bio parents), and he basically was given toys and told to be quiet and left alone. This kid actually wants attention. Pretty sure his mother smacks the daylights out of the 4-yr-old when she's watching him and it's not helping. Kid's mother is the one in prison pending trial for child abuse. Friend is now wanting to bail her out so she can have the kid back-- but I don't think the courts would allow it and he knows she's abusive so its aggravating. I get that he's frustrated though. He's having health issues and his wife's insurance company refused to cover him so he's uninsured.
He needs to find some resources to help him deal with the kid and needs to accept that his ex may not get out of prison for a very long time. She'd be homeless if she got out and someone stole the wheels off her car and put it up on blocks so she wouldn't have transportation. She'd likely mooch off of him. I asked him where she would stay and he said with her brother or mother. Now, last time she stayed with her brother the creep told her that if she wanted to keep staying she had to put out. yeah, her own brother... yuck. The mother already said she won't have that slob back in her house.
Oh, and AC guys couldn't make it today-- which I completely understand. Guy called to apologize profusely and said he'd try tomorrow morning. Mom answered the phone and said "We're getting used to the heat" and I said "Speak for yourself, woman! I'm a dripping ball of sweat!" Speaking of Mom, she threw empty plastic walmart bags on the floor bc she thought there was cat crap on the floor that she might step in and she would rather step on the bags (which she complains trip her). I had to pick them up and I put a puppy pad down.
The heat only seems to be making the roaches worse. I went and got more roach tablets and need to set them out.