I don't think she's looking to get married again right now! But y'all are young and she may want to someday. My point was to make sure she knows someday isn't in your plans!
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I believe she told him she is not looking for anything serious the night they met over the dinner...non date dinner.
Unless I read that wrong.
Nothing wrong with making sure that is still the case ..but it sounds like they both touched on where they stand ..
Unless I read that wrong.
Nothing wrong with making sure that is still the case ..but it sounds like they both touched on where they stand ..
Ehhh, not for me,, just not wired for much that does not include dancing.
Cool idea, but most times just not into dating a person I have not known for a while and most times the first date is because they want to play.
That is past times, been married for a long time and will be buried with the lady.
Cool idea, but most times just not into dating a person I have not known for a while and most times the first date is because they want to play.
That is past times, been married for a long time and will be buried with the lady.
and IF She still gets Hurt...?!? Which She will...!!
"Oh, where oh where can my baby be? The Lord took her away from me
She's gone to heaven, so I got to be good, So I can see my baby when I leave this world" ...!!!
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Now that I think about it, she did have eyes.
Yep, Saturday. In a suit. She has already expressed no interest in ever getting remarried. One and done is how she put it.
I am playing cool as human nature allows while also not allowing myself to end up in the friend zone. I have never been there, but it sounds ******* horrible.
I work out, stretch a lot and have ample ibuprofen. I am up for the challenge.
I agree, if it was just a one-nighter I would have already moved on. Technically we were in a relationship the second she sat down at the supper club table. How long the relationship lasts and how deep it goes depends on factors that are not all under my control. She seems to be looking for a fun 'partner' but clearly does not want another husband. We are already on the same page with that.
Have been texting on and off with her today. She really enjoyed the date and is looking forward to Saturday. She warned me that it will be "stuffy". She also told me if at any point I felt like it was not an environment for me, just to let her know and we would leave. Have to decide which gun to wear with my suit. So many options.
BTW when we were talking yesterday I did find out that she had a dog for 13 years named "Puff". It was a little white fluffy dog and it passed away about a year ago. She told me it hurt so much when she died that she would never get another pet, she compared it to losing a child. She does however volunteer at a shelter from time to time.
This Lady is definitely not your run of the mill woman. No social media sans an old Pinterest account she hasn't seen in years. She works, goes to yoga, runs, paints, reads, volunteers, does charity events, etc. She seems too busy for the internet. She pays attention to the world around her but does not seem to let her get emotionally charged one way or another. I think the term is even keeled. She makes me curious about her.
BTW when we were talking yesterday I did find out that she had a dog for 13 years named "Puff". It was a little white fluffy dog and it passed away about a year ago. She told me it hurt so much when she died that she would never get another pet, she compared it to losing a child. She does however volunteer at a shelter from time to time.
This Lady is definitely not your run of the mill woman. No social media sans an old Pinterest account she hasn't seen in years. She works, goes to yoga, runs, paints, reads, volunteers, does charity events, etc. She seems too busy for the internet. She pays attention to the world around her but does not seem to let her get emotionally charged one way or another. I think the term is even keeled. She makes me curious about her.
And how does she feel about you posting a blow-by-blow of the events to strangers on the internet?
Hey, some of us are his relationship coaches!!
The same way I feel about her giving her perspective play by play to her daughter, friends, co-workers, etc. The difference is we all live in the same area, she tells them my name, shows them my picture and we could actually run into each other. You people don't even know her name. You don't even know my name.
Hey, some of us are his relationship coaches!!
This could just as easily be an invitation only group conversation in the direct messaging section.
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So what will happen if you and her go on a date and run into the ex? Will there be a ugly scene?
It sounds like you are halfway into a relationship again already. Wow, I thought you wanted to avoid that at all cost? What will you do if this one wants to move it also, or you to move in with her?
I am somewhat surprised you are already dating someone new. Not even a week has gone by.
Do we get to see a photo soon?
I fear no man. If we run into each other he will make his choices and I will respond accordingly. Or stand by as she responds accordingly with me at the ready. Ugly situations are where I shine. Ugly situations are what I do.
Every partner I have ever had has been a relationship, some are short and some are long and some can lead to regular sexual activity and lots of social fun without marriage. That is what I am shooting for here. And I kind of think that's what she's shooting for too. I just run down the hill like a mad bull and she is gently and casually strolling down the hill like a... I was never gonna call her a cow.
She has no social media and has only sent me one picture which she did not want me to share. When we are face to face again I will ask for one she is okay with me sharing or if I can blur part of her face or something.
Don't let the negative Nellies ruin this thread!! You have us all dangling by "the thread"!!This could just as easily be an invitation only group conversation in the direct messaging section.
It is an nice work of fiction.
I'm betting OPERA for Saturday's date!!
I'm betting OPERA for Saturday's date!!
I hope not. I have been to one opera and one ballet. I will never get those wasted minutes back.
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agree with you on the opera, been once. It was a highschool field trip in Germany. The ballet was slightly better, daughter wanted to see the Nutcracker
Some people are like birds, they just fly around and **** on everything.
It does look like we can have a private group chat in messages, adding anyone we want and not adding anyone we don't. Not there yet, but could end up there.
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hey I LIKE birds.....but yeah, they do crap a lot, especially the barn pigeons
I don't think you need to make this private, just ignore the posts you don't like , problem solved!
Or they could ignore the thread and go to one they like
Most women wouldn't see it like that.
Sounds simple doesn't it?
Yep shame it don't work like that
I like a good fiction story, though I do prefer Sci-fi over romance.
Star Date 41153.7
I gave her a call and let her know that all of the women of the world have elected a representative and fortune had it that he happened to be on the very forum I frequent. She wanted me to thank you for your service and for making sure your feelings about how woman think and feel was duly represented. She was curious however when you would be using your vast expertise to explain to liberals what a woman is? I also want to thank you for your keen feminine insights and representing a gender you do not share. Nothing says women's empowerment like repeatedly declaring a woman you don't know is fictional. Then suddenly, without warning, she dematerialized and disappeared from the video phone! "Klingon ship decloaking off the port bow!" "Shields up! Evasive maneuvers!". "The bastards got her!"
Fade out.
I hope you enjoyed this actually fictional post as well as the rest of this thread too.
Captain Marsh: One to beam up. Energize. <energizer sounds>
For Gods sake man IT"S A TRAP RUN
Then start a sci Fi thread!!
I 'd say what I usually say at a point like this , but I got in trouble last time I said it.
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I like her too..
She sounds very zen...
Like a woman who has learned to invite happiness and the rewards of living a fulfilling life journey by engaging in positive activities that give her health and joy. In return that positive mojo radiates outward to life around her. She realizes she is responsible for her happiness and thus embodies a lifestyle that supports one.
She appears ..in that zen way..a striking contrast to what you have described, what you generally have relations with...drama, high maintenance , not emotionally grounded..
And I think many of us are curious about her too.
I can empathize with her on the loss of her pup.
It is heartbreaking.. but if she volunteers occasionally..the Universe has a way of opening those doors again..
I'm a reader, not a writer.
