https://www.homesteadingforum.org/threads/the-ladies.36734/post-990762Thread title changed from “That Lady” to “The Ladies” ?
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https://www.homesteadingforum.org/threads/the-ladies.36734/post-990762Thread title changed from “That Lady” to “The Ladies” ?
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Just realized you have a birthday coming up.
We are all anticipating tomorrow's date!!No word from the can't-let-go Lady or her man hating roommate/friend. Hopefully that trend continues. I don't see her as the vengeful type, she was more of a lover than fighter. That may have played a part in her changing roles at the sheriffs office. I will however use all due precautions and if she uses any official resources on me I will be sure and raise all sorts of hell. Plus of course I have already checked out my ride, my phone and all over the compound because you people got my conspiracy theory loving paranoia all up and active. Thanks for that.
The new Lady sent me a picture today via text. Said "in case you forgot what I look like". She is smiling big in the picture, but I am not sure I have ever seen her not smiling. I responded with "Can I post it on the internet with the label 'my hot date'?" She said, "Ummm, not this time, but maybe eventually" and a smiley face.
Then she asked if I had a nice suit for Saturday. I told her I have a couple suits but I am not sure where they fall on the sliding scale of "nice". My guess is they are on the lower 1/3 of nice/classy as they are really work suits that I use for certain PSD's. But throw on a nice shirt, a silky pocket square and matching tie, some shiny black shoes and a little bling and I am sure I can pass muster wherever we go. Let's not forget that I have a winning smile and sparkling personality.
Date is all set for tomorrow. Have ample cash, debit card ready to go, deep concealment piece loaded, clothes picked out, facial hair trimmed, nails trimmed, car interior cleaned and exterior ready to wash in the morning, zoo contacted and open, tickets in hand for the jazz club/show, etc. Now I just need time to pass by.
This whole thing is VERY different than how my "relationships" usually go. Way more pomp & circumstance, planning and fanfare. Dare I say more anticipation. Most of my dates are really more like 30 minute meets up and then clothes are being tossed on the floor of a hotel, custodial closet, restroom, sandy beach, etc. And then I start looking for the next meet up.
Can you call that a date?Most of my dates are really more like 30 minute meets up and then clothes are being tossed on the floor of a hotel, custodial closet, restroom, sandy beach, etc. And then I start looking for the next meet up.
The big day!!! Spare no details Marsh ( well maybe a few)!
@d_marsh, Have You seen a pic of the New One's Daughter yet...?!?
Shhh, some of us are nosy and enjoying this!!For a guy that's emotionally closed the OP sure seems to be sharing a LOT.
Romance Novel via da'Net...!!!Shhh, some of us are nosy and enjoying this!!![]()
Yep. Double trouble.Thread title changed from “That Lady” to “The Ladies” ?
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Sometimes you have to chew your leg off to get out of a trap.Check your other leg for a trap, lol!!
That’s not the way SHE sees it.She left, no second chances!!![]()
Sound Familiar...?!?We also spent some time at the zoo just sitting and talking. I learned more about her, her only child, her hobbies, her likes, her dislikes and a little about her horrible cheating bastard ex-husband. What a dick. She is fiscally conservative and socially liberal, sounded like a traditional moderate who takes each issue one at a time. She obviously loves zoos and is also really into yoga and art. We discussed how people have tried to set her up a couple times but she has always passed, all the way until the supper club. She could not articulate why she felt drawn to dine with me but she said she was trying to force herself to be daring but still needed a push to get there. And of course she said I looked very handsome and a little “maybe dangerous” at the same time. Not bad guy dangerous, but “I can get into trouble with this one” dangerous.
Hooked Again...!!!When I told her we were going to the zoo she was near giddy. She talked about the zoo for 10-15 minutes straight even telling me that they have some big fancy event every September “that we should go to”. This is where you wonder how we got from real date #1 to September… or at least that is what I was wondering. Quickly I realized that this was going to a guided tour of the zoo with her being the guide and me being the first timer. She was pretty knowledgeable and drug me from area to the next with youthful excitement. Pretty sure I won’t need to go for a hike tomorrow. We stopped at a café like place that had beer. I don’t go to a lot of zoos but I already know that I prefer zoos with beer. This place also had like 7-8 places you could eat at. Had I known that we could have just eaten here, might need to do more research next time.
I’m thinking this is not a sham, bam, thank you ma’am kind of thing. Marsh, I’m thinking you are getting yourself into another relationship. Ya know, the kind you don’t like. She is going to want something more than you can offer.So Saturday is up next! You definitely did a great date planning job, wonder what she has planned?? I just hope she's not looking too long term as in relationship long term, I think you are going to have to bring this up at some point (after the "third" date)! But let's get to Saturday first!
and it just might Ruin Her Chances of ever Finding a True Love again after he lets her Down...!!!I’m thinking this is not a sham, bam, thank you ma’am kind of thing. Marsh, I’m thinking you are getting yourself into another relationship. Ya know, the kind you don’t like. She is going to want something more than you can offer.
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