Understanding Narcissism and Narcissists

[montanabill]

And unfortunately narcissist's and borderlines are really hard to pull back to reality till they see what and who the problems is.....One of my favorite discussion points is after the person onloads on you how everything is someone else's fault is to ask them how their current lifestyle is working out for them...
Hopefully we are thru that stage with the kiddo we have been raising. His response to having to go to school was to throw up till he had a eroded esophagus......now several years later he and a friend are building their own tiny houses in the back yard....

 

[Amish Heart]

Many just don't pull back. A few I've known just get worse with age. Then you've got to set your boundaries to decide how to care about them when they need help.

 

[Weedygarden]

Revenge is not something I believe is helpful. This is a good video.