Hi lady, I have seen too many situations to be able to sort them out into a pattern. None of them can be stuck into a certain "drawer" and be replicated. Each scenario is so different.I’ve seen several different opinions of how long it will take after the sh*t truly hits the fan for folks to attack others. With all your experience Gary I would love to know how long do you think it will be?
The fast ones come from earthquakes and tornados. You have only time to run into the cellar or out of the house/building.
The slow ones come from hurricanes, forest fires and floodings. You have time to get food, water, fuel and such...but you never know if you will need them or HAVE ENOUGH of each since you do not know for certain if and or how you will be personally and directly affected.
The fastest ones have only occured with lightning strikes, explosions and mass shootings. You have absolutely NO TIME to plan, react or have the right answer to what is happening. You are already affected and either are in the middle and get killed or so near that you just got blessed/lucky? to be alive still.
The wierd ones come from nearby unexpected tragedies and car accidents. You see it coming, know what it can do, have the time to think and even react, but of the several possible reactions, your training, skill, situation awareness, available space you have already prepared while driving or even walking/jogging and especially how much you must weigh-in on according to those around you, in your car with you and their strengths and prepardness since you saw it early enough to cry out a warning to get them ready for "impact" and demanding them to take evasive action or to just get as far away as possible so you can concentrate on "working" and not also need to worry about them at the same time.
My wife KNOWS that if anything happens in a restaurant, bar, movie, shopping mall or even a flea market...take cover, get under a table, go lock herself into a toilet...just GET OUT OF MY WAY so you also do not get hurt when I go into BLACKOUT mode and only react to the decades of training and the experience with such situations.
I have done the hurricanes (4), tornados (3), car accidents (50-60), fires (2), explosions (war), snipers (2),
shootings (4), earthquakes (2) and floodings (3). None of them were the same.
I have watched family members freak out and not be able to help injured and even dying their own and I had to save them medically in car accidents.
I cleared a home of a family shooting and found the wife with a bullet hole in her forehead and held her wrist and felt the last heartbeats.
I have to say to answer your original question: each person has their own limits, borders and abilities.
Each person, even those you would trust to do the right thing and they have said the right things you would need to HEAR from them, will react to every situation under duress, stress and danger, they will either TAKE ACTION from real experience, OR FREEZE up and not be able to do anything. Their age, sex or intelligence does not make any difference. Their mindset, heartset and inner strength will take over, or they will run for their lives and leave you behind to fend for yourself. AND THESE THINGS WILL HAPPEN until your relationship with them has gone thru FIRE BEFOREHAND. Only then, will you KNOW what someone will do. Until then, trust no-one, be ready to fight for yourself and your loved ones.
When the SHTF, each person only has the LAWS WRITTEN IN THEIR HEARTS as their are no more on paper.
When the SHTF, be prepared to be alone or with very few trust-able persons and be ready for the situation of:
""the only fight is one over LIFE AND DEATH....my LIFE and your DEATH....""
Hard words for hard times sister, live free, Gary