I am sorry you're going through this Patch.
So what I do when this happens; in case for health reasons.
I send them random cards, no reason in the mail.
I don't put
gift cards or cash in them.
Just a little card to let them know I am thinking about them.
Memphis got a booklet about hurting people feelings.
Meredith got hair ties in neon colors.
They were cool they glowed in the dark.
Estelle got a book about turtles.
Reign got a new cookie cookbook.
Charlie got a book about farm animals.
Nyx ot a book about tools.
She seems to be fascinated by them.
Every month or I just drop something into the mail.
Nothing big or expensive, just something.
I tend toward books.
Or puzzles.
Just an idea.
Also they think their hot stuff when they get mail.