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@angie_nrs I think it depends on the state. Where I live you can file for unemployment, wait several months, try to check on status but they won't communicate. If the employer disputes your claim then unemployment automatically rejects your claim. They are supposed to allow you to appeal it, but the dirty creeps on my state flag it as "pending" so you can never appeal and they won't let you appeal unless you get a lawyer. They know most people can't afford a lawyer for it. This happened to my brother when he was wrongfully terminated (his boss fired him in retaliation for me filing a formal complaint against the boss). Six months after my brother's unemployment claim, he still was unable to appeal or resubmit. You don't get to talk to anyone on the phone- it's all automated. It's only supposed to take 2 weeks for them to handle a claim but it takes months & sometimes they never get around to people. My brother currently has a valid unemployment claim. He submitted a month ago but they haven't sent him anything.
@Grimm I may have to try something OTC bc the meds I'm on don't seem to be working. I still feel run down. I started a new allergy medicine and both times I took it (at night as per doctor recommendation) I was out almost all day afterward. Just completely exhausted. Not sure if it's the medicine or something else. I took my old allergy meds tonight. Taking my friend to the dentist tomorrow morning bc his tooth broke in half.
Lower back was bothering me again today. My brother is starting to get lower back pain and is finally seeing what it's like, but I don't think he has much empathy. He thinks he's "toughing it out" despite not picking up after himself or doing anything really. He got himself some food and left a mess for me to clean up & he thinks he's handling it better than I have. I've had back pain for years and some days its worse than others & I can barely move. Legs have been cramping too. I need more vitamins I think. Need to find some multi-vitamins again.
I fed the cats, made lunch, and then made dinner (after I had to clean up the huge mess my brother left for me). He had beef broth containers all over the counter and in the sink, hadn't rinsed the pan he used to cook, left splatter on the cooktop, and used one of my plates instead of his own (at least he put it in the sink but it wasn't rinsed).
@Grimm I may have to try something OTC bc the meds I'm on don't seem to be working. I still feel run down. I started a new allergy medicine and both times I took it (at night as per doctor recommendation) I was out almost all day afterward. Just completely exhausted. Not sure if it's the medicine or something else. I took my old allergy meds tonight. Taking my friend to the dentist tomorrow morning bc his tooth broke in half.
Lower back was bothering me again today. My brother is starting to get lower back pain and is finally seeing what it's like, but I don't think he has much empathy. He thinks he's "toughing it out" despite not picking up after himself or doing anything really. He got himself some food and left a mess for me to clean up & he thinks he's handling it better than I have. I've had back pain for years and some days its worse than others & I can barely move. Legs have been cramping too. I need more vitamins I think. Need to find some multi-vitamins again.
I fed the cats, made lunch, and then made dinner (after I had to clean up the huge mess my brother left for me). He had beef broth containers all over the counter and in the sink, hadn't rinsed the pan he used to cook, left splatter on the cooktop, and used one of my plates instead of his own (at least he put it in the sink but it wasn't rinsed).