So, got my friend out to help clean up her bed and get stuff in bins. No idea where some stuff is now. She was happy that things were cleaned but not happy that she didn't know where stuff was. While she was in the hospital she complained that they made her take a shower and that while she was showering she accidentally pulled on the string for her stent. Said she'd been leaking ever since. She was massively soaking stuff and she even mentioned to the nurse she thought she pulled the stent loose. The didn't pay any mind to it. I got a call from her doctor (who never spoke to her about her own condition) who said she could be released and that she had some plaque on her brain but nothing severe.
She started feeling queasy right before leaving the hospital and she was just constantly dripping clear odorless urine. She kept soaking the bed, the pads, and the diapers. Got her in a fresh diaper and put pads under her. They still said she was good to be released. She started puking in the truck but refused to go back to the hospital. Got her home, she went to the bathroom, changed the diaper, she kept throwing up and feeling nauseous. Couldn't keep anything down again and was just constantly leaking all over the place. Soaked the brand new bed sheets even though I put a pad under her. The diaper exploded and the gel stuff that is supposed to absorb urine just flew all over. Decided to take her to the ER bc she was getting worse. Put a new diaper on her, pads under her for the truck ride, pads under her on the wheelchair, & got her there. My brother got her out the door in the wheelchair but refused to help any further than that. He went back to bed after having a bit of a tantrum.
She was in the ER with high bp for several hours. She'd mentioned trying to go to the ER an hour away but I wanted to get her somewhere faster and didn't think it would be necessary. I should have taken her to the farther one. She was complaining she wanted food but they said they couldn't feed her if she was nauseous. They did scans and found that the stent had indeed come loose. The urologist said they needed to pull it out. The doctor on call said he wasn't comfortable with that. So they played phone tag trying to find out what to do and if she could be transferred to the other ER. I even made calls and the ER over there said she should be transferred. I even went and left a message with our GP (who called me back after 6pm when he finally got the message). They eventually authorized a transfer where I could take her myself (rather than waiting on an available ambulance and using one for non-emergency). For the record, local ER said the urologist never called back but the other ER said they did call back and no one picked up. So, I got Mom to the other ER, rolled her in-- which was a pain bc that ER is NOT ADA compliant. They have an outswing door which won't stay open so I had to have a second person come hold the door open so I could get her through the door. Also, there's no ramp up to the sidewalk near the handicap spaces closest to the ER. You have to go way far away to find a ramp and it was raining.
While she was in the local ER I had drive home to pick some stuff up, then I had to drive to Walmart to get some stuff (and see if her RXs had been filled-- they had not). The parking lot in the local ER turned into a freaking pond from the rain so my shoes and socks got soaked. I had to drop Mom off at the other ER bc I promised my friend I'd meet him in another town to haul in my truck. It was over an hour away. She called me when I was almost there to tell me that the doctor hadn't been able to find the stent (didn't see the string) and said it must have fallen out. But she was still leaking so she checked, found the string, and pulled it out. She showed the nurse when he checked on her. The nurse got the doctor to come back and showed him the stent and chastised him for not seeing it. The doctor apologized and made sure there was no blood and she wasn't in any pain. They discharged her. So I still had to take stuff back to my friend's house, get gas, and then drive to pick Mom up. I had not eaten all day and was exhausted. Had to sing 99 bottles of beer on the wall to keep myself awake.
Picked her up and she wanted apple juice (upside is they fed her at the 2nd ER and she wasn't hungry but the hospital had been giving her apple juice and she wanted some). I stopped to get a burger at DQ and their head manager messed up the order so I had to take it back. A different employee made it and it was done right-- although they did microwave it, but that was fine.
Stopped at Walmart on the way home to get apple juice since Mom was insisting. Did get her a kind she likes with no sugar added so she was happy. Got her home and to the living room (she was too tired to walk all the way to her room and I didn't have the strength to mess with the wheelchair by that point). I finished my burger at home (only ate half before driving and I ran out of something to drink with it). Fed kitties and rested. She went back to her room by herself and called me so I came and helped her get into bed and got stuff out of the truck and brought things to her. Got her settled. She called again bc a cat had gotten in. Got the cat out. She wanted something else later but I can't remember what. Checked on her this morning and she was ok. She's been able to get to and from the bathroom by herself. Went and picked up her RXs and she's absolutely exhausted. I want to check her blood sugar but don't know how to use the meter and thing to stick her. Hoping my brother will wake up soon to show me bc she's too exhausted to answer questions.
She hasn't eaten since she left the hospital and has not checked her sugar. She said she feels bad but is not throwing up or nauseous anymore. I think she's just exhausted. Hoping that is it.
Meanwhile, another peeve: I was backing out of a parking space when some jackhole to my left decided to run over and swing his passenger side door open so far it almost hit my mirror. Would have hit if I hadn't braked. He then climbed inside his vehicle with his door in front of my mirror so I couldn't back out while I yelled "HEY, A-HOLE! Shut your damn door! You're blocking me from backing out!" and he was laughing and giggling and ignoring me. I was 2 seconds away from rolling my window down and shoving his door out of the way when he got out and shut the door-- then he stood too close to my vehicle for me to back out for a few seconds while I said "A-HOLE, MOVE BEFORE I PUNCH YOU IN THE FACE!" He finally moved. I normally am not this cranky with people but I am way too exhausted to deal with inconsiderate people. Dude was an absolute bellend. Didn't help that I kept having charley horses in my legs last night and had to physically grab my feet and pull them flat and they didn't want to go flat so I had to fight with them to make the muscles stop knotting.
Anyway, needed to get that out of my system.
Editing to add that I just tried to check her sugar with the new meter and all it did was put out an error code.
TL: DR? Mom was released but had to go back to ER, had to go to 2nd ER an hour away, she pulled her own stent out, she's still feeling cruddy, & I'm sore and exhausted. Plus her new blood sugar meter only puts out error codes.