My attitude would preclude my driving a school bus, it would get me fired very shortly.
I leaned from the group of much older cousins there is no threat, if someone makes a threat treat it as an action, respond full force and make it forever.
It has always worked and when I didn't my end of the situation was much worse, so I take all threats as an action and respond to the action.
That means picking up a confrontational punk and putting them on their back legs locked down and arms crossed wrists crushed in one hand and head held with the other till they decide they cant do anything but stop wiggling and be quiet like I said.
My so had one of the biggest High school senior football players we ever had locally for a best friend and he decided he wanted to wrestle one day because my son had tried it before and told him he didn't want any part of it.
I obliged him and when he was in that position He finally just went limp and I said ready to get up he said yes and I helped him up, but he was a definite handful, I was just about winded when I got him up I said you are making it really hard on an old man and we all laughed.
I used to love to do that stuff, time marches on!!!
Still never say die though or you do.
I leaned from the group of much older cousins there is no threat, if someone makes a threat treat it as an action, respond full force and make it forever.
It has always worked and when I didn't my end of the situation was much worse, so I take all threats as an action and respond to the action.
That means picking up a confrontational punk and putting them on their back legs locked down and arms crossed wrists crushed in one hand and head held with the other till they decide they cant do anything but stop wiggling and be quiet like I said.
My so had one of the biggest High school senior football players we ever had locally for a best friend and he decided he wanted to wrestle one day because my son had tried it before and told him he didn't want any part of it.
I obliged him and when he was in that position He finally just went limp and I said ready to get up he said yes and I helped him up, but he was a definite handful, I was just about winded when I got him up I said you are making it really hard on an old man and we all laughed.
I used to love to do that stuff, time marches on!!!
Still never say die though or you do.