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There you go!It happened to me... One day I worked on 2 continents, a short time later I was a vegetable.
I'm a naturally positive person but... I was a grumpy cuss for several years. It was devastating, permanent, no cure. Took me years to accept my new life, a lot of very dark days. It took even longer to build a new life. It still gets to me sometimes... have to shove the gremlin back in the closet.
I feel for you but have no helpful insights. It's up to him to stop dwelling on the past and go forward. It's not easy... not easy at all.
A Chef Petty Officer sat me down and said...
Ben, if you never give up you never fail. You are just still working on it.
That advise has served me well.
Keep at it!
Ben