If your a kept man you dont need a job. And its hard to keep a job if your on call to the wealthy lady at her demand.Unmarried but permanently taken?
Hmmmmmmmmm. So, the way I see it, you've been taken hostage and cannot escape!
If your a kept man you dont need a job. And its hard to keep a job if your on call to the wealthy lady at her demand.Unmarried but permanently taken?
Hmmmmmmmmm. So, the way I see it, you've been taken hostage and cannot escape!
I don't think y'all are rushing things at all!! I say this from personal experience!! I truly feel things are happening how they are supposed to happen!!
And you are helpingSo does the lady, when she's awake. And now I feel very much like they her and her daughter are teaming up on me to move things forward.
I have a mental picture of 2 women, dressed in cowboy clothes, each twirling lassoes, and 1 man standing close by, realizing the inevitable outcome!
And you are helping
ahhh.....no....they both just had a crappy thing happen to them...they both have been all soured....now they are trying to have fun and be happy having a man around..one as a partner..the other as someone they might want to lean on a bit and some male guidence....both might find it relaxing not have their guards up 24/7 too.So does the lady, when she's awake. And now I feel very much like they her and her daughter are teaming up on me to move things forward.
i tried to tell ya....they could make Guantanamo bay look like holiday inn with the tools and such at their disposal.She's awake! So is her daughter. And it's only 11:16am. The lady came in plopped down on the sofa and told me she hopes I loved breakfast because it's only going to happen maybe once or twice a year. Since she was already being funny I decided to ask her about her social media post. She told me people keep asking her when she's going to get married again and she posted it to make it clear she won't be, but she is permanently off the market because "either we are together forever" or she "kills us both in a fiery car wreck" before laughing. Now I am too afraid to ride in her car with her. I did ask if she really thought we were going to be together forever and she shot back "of course we are, why would we be?" then added "I mean, chances are you won't live as long me, but we will be together until then anyway". So clearly I am going to die at the hands of this lady, sooner or later. I also learned a lesson about asking questions.
Tuck and roll, tuck and roll!!!!She's awake! So is her daughter. And it's only 11:16am. The lady came in plopped down on the sofa and told me she hopes I loved breakfast because it's only going to happen maybe once or twice a year. Since she was already being funny I decided to ask her about her social media post. She told me people keep asking her when she's going to get married again and she posted it to make it clear she won't be, but she is permanently off the market because "either we are together forever" or she "kills us both in a fiery car wreck" before laughing. Now I am too afraid to ride in her car with her. I did ask if she really thought we were going to be together forever and she shot back "of course we are, why would we be?" then added "I mean, chances are you won't live as long me, but we will be together until then anyway". So clearly I am going to die at the hands of this lady, sooner or later. I also learned a lesson about asking questions.
Alice will have a big cleaning job!!I have now cleaned the kitchen twice today, emptied the dishwasher that I loaded and ran earlier, went grocery shopping, put pork chops in brine, got up to fill the lady's water, helped the girl with her studies and turned on the fan for the lady who is hot but is also covered in no less than 3 blankets she doesn't want to take off. I am starting to wonder if I am Mike Brady, Carol Brady or Alice.
Also the lady keeps showing me houses for sale that interest her. Unsurprisingly her taste in housing exceeds mine, I am just waiting for her to come up with a valid reason why we would need 5+ bedrooms and 4+ bathrooms. I don't even want to know what the taxes are on houses that big.
I think you may be all three!Alice will have a big cleaning job!!
Alice will have a big cleaning job!!
I think you may be all three!
Count on the fact that there will be cleaning people. Lady may already have some.Alice will have a big cleaning job!!
Count on the fact that there will be cleaning people. Lady may already have some.
Since you'll be changing jobs and being a cleaning service, please feel free to ask me for advice! Think this through.......you work as a live in maid (ok, servant), free room and board, some pay, doing all things you are doing now!! This brings new potential to the situation!!She said she intended to hire a cleaning service, but I am sure I will still be busy. She also made a crack about how if she knew that men who grew up without mom's were used to shopping, cooking and cleaning for themselves she would have targeted that demographic years ago.
To be fair I am borderline OCD about cleaning up every little mess I see when I see it, where she is fine with letting the whole area turn to **** then spending an hour+ sanitizing the entire room.
Since you'll be changing jobs and being a cleaning service, please feel free to ask me for advice! Think this through.......you work as a live in maid (ok, servant), free room and board, some pay, doing all things you are doing now!! This brings new potential to the situation!!
I just think this is wise.Thanks. I don't think there will be any loans or such. The discussion we have had up to this point is she buys something local, I buy something more remote or just some land. Then in time we would have the best of both worlds.
Like I said all along, the nuptials are not far off. Whether you are legally married or not. I would just go ahead and get married. There are some legal benefits health insurance, estate planning, income taxes, and something about being married makes it harder to leave after a blowup. That is a good thing to have to stop and think instead of just reacting. Still want to be a groomsman at the wedding. The hook is getting set deeper by the day, she just has to reel you in now. I think this a great thing for you. Never know when some medical condition or accident will occur and you need help.
I just think this is wise.
I have thought that owning a remote property of land that can be developed over time as a BOL, would be wise for anyone who especially is kind of in a situation where life is a bit in limbo.
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