Given current conditions, I'd agree that a remote place should be first. You may need a place to flee to. Buy some land, put up a basic home. If the SHTF you will need it.
As long it isn't a "Hazel"...?!?Alice will have a big cleaning job!!
Given current conditions, I'd agree that a remote place should be first. You may need a place to flee to. Buy some land, put up a basic home. If the SHTF you will need it.
I would say the remote place first. Something just doesn't seem right in America today. I would rather have a place in a rural area and continue to rent in the city. We are fixing move to Northern Arkansas or Southwest Missouri and I am staying out of any town over 25,000. Should have done it years ago. Getting old, not in a great financial shape but God will show us a way.
ahhh.....no....they both just had a crappy thing happen to them...they both have been all soured....now they are trying to have fun and be happy having a man around..one as a partner..the other as someone they might want to lean on a bit and some male guidence....both might find it relaxing not have their guards up 24/7 too.
see...told ya...they need you on many levels !Well now I'm not happy. Drove to the compound only to get a call from the lady letting me know the the daughter just found a note on her car from this kid who asked her out and she said no too. The note was very creepy and stalkerish and it turns out this wasn't the first note or the first creepy thing he has done in the last week or so. It was however the first stalkerish note he left on her car AT THE APT building. He must have followed her home after class last week. Sounds like I might have to dig a hole then look for my sharpest carrot peeler.
Too close! Hope she knows where he lives!!On my way back to the city. This is not okay. Hello darkness my old friend.
Nope, she was Always getting in Mr. B's Business...!!!That's more like it, not the Brady Bunch!!
It is probable that he has been stalking her for a while. People like him do not like being told "NO". If she is as beautiful and attractive as her mother, and now that he realizes that she is above the average person financially, he probably thinks she is a catch.Well now I'm not happy. Drove to the compound only to get a call from the lady letting me know the the daughter just found a note on her car from this kid who asked her out and she said no too. The note was very creepy and stalkerish and it turns out this wasn't the first note or the first creepy thing he has done in the last week or so. It was however the first stalkerish note he left on her car AT THE APT building. He must have followed her home after class last week. Sounds like I might have to dig a hole then look for my sharpest carrot peeler.
Those mini WD40s work great when sprayed in the face! They spray a nice stream and are just as convenient to carry as pepper spray!It is probable that he has been stalking her for a while. People like him do not like being told "NO". If she is as beautiful and attractive as her mother, and now that he realizes that she is above the average person financially, he probably thinks she is a catch.
Stalkers, however, are often narcissistic and abusive. It is absolutely so good that you are so close to the girl, so that you can send a strong message to the creep.
This is a good opportunity for her to learn about protecting herself and to be aware of her surroundings at all times. She needs to figure out what his vehicle is like. And, does he have a tracking device attached to her car?
I bought my daughter and myself pepper spray, made by Sabre. I see that Sabre has a spray that has a wrist strap, so it could be there when needed, like when walking on campus or in parking garages.
Daughter is always changing hand bags and thinks that the spray is too much for her. She said she wouldn't even be able to find it if she needed it. She probably couldn't since it isn't a priority for her. I'd really like to get her a small pistol, but I think she would be greatly opposed to that as well. A stun gun would also be something that daughter could have. She has no idea about the gun collection that her dad had that got sold off when he developed ALS. Daughter runs, or did and will again when she heals from her foot surgery, so this wrist spray would be a good thing for her to have.
and Wd 40 has a pleasant smell , so when a dangerous person arrives to crap kick the idiot (and what ever "cop" shows up) they don't get pepperspray on their handsThose mini WD40s work great when sprayed in the face! They spray a nice stream and are just as convenient to carry as pepper spray!
I agree. I think the restaurant incident where Marsh went out and confronted the two men who were hanging out around the lady's car was a time that both the lady and her daughter had to realize what a protector he is and could be for them.OK back on the rails, : As bad as this stalker incident is this should convince the daughter that you are truly a source of wisdom.
Are there not cameras at the apartment parking garage???
I think that might not be the case, D scared this clown shitless without violence or weapon,s that is big, maybe if the stalker is nut bar enough, he might not learn, but narcisists don't like pain, and like the upper hand, D took care of all of that.You all have not seen the last of the boy-creep.
I suspect next time will not be as innocent.
I'm not sure that you are right about this. You might be, but he has more than met his match in Marsh.You all have not seen the last of the boy-creep.
I suspect next time will not be as innocent.
I have got a feeling the younger one might be getting some tips, he has the basis, being protective, now he just needs danger training (and not that nerve pinch crap it only work on rookies)I'm not sure that you are right about this. You might be, but he has more than met his match in Marsh.
He knows that he could really get hurt by him if he doesn't cool his jets. He may continue to stalk her, but to change up his tactics. He may be quiet for a while. He has been observed, his car identified, now being tracked, and has been called out by someone who could take his life, and if nothing else, seriously put the hurt on him. It really depends on him, whether he has ever really encountered such strength and dominance by another man and if this speaks to him enough to put his tail between his legs and go away, or to continue to scheme until he comes up with another idea. He was given a strong message and now knows that two men are watching out for her, even if the friend is young and inexperienced with such situations.
Very nice Marsh. I too expect this won't be the last time he'll show up. Might wait awhile.
Friend zone could use a few tips, but already shows the guts to stand up
Lady's daughter, like many young women, is kind to others, and this is a young man who has mistaken the message she was giving to him. Actually, she wasn't giving him a message. He just wanted to give himself permission to be the jerk he was being.
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