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Growing up in South Florida, I wore flip flops most everywhere except school or work, into my mid-30’s.
Either that or barefoot.
So did I most of the time
Growing up in South Florida, I wore flip flops most everywhere except school or work, into my mid-30’s.
Either that or barefoot.
I wear shoes I can run in, always be prepared!!
I would think it would be really difficult to abuse them on any level when they aren’t there and the fact that they are making false accusations about you is actually emotional abuse in the other direction. If I said anything it would be that any healthy relationship requires consideration of the other by both parties. (No guru is going to argue with that and you would be establishing a note of compassion and understanding without directly naming names so to speak). I’m sorry you have to be in that situation. Praying for peaceful resolutionI'll do my best. The best that can happen is that the therapist will say that they should be able to move somewhere else. Then I'll change the locks and that'll be that. Any stuff they leave will go in the dumpster. The worst thing is formal charges filed, and court. It was stupid court last time. It's only 112 days left and it'd be great if we don't have to have them for it's entirety. Granddaughter is behind this, and wants to trash and burn before she leaves. I have to act like none of this bothers me, but it really does. So, since there's no school tomorrow, the family room is set up for the meeting in the event the twins are already left for the day. And if they're still upstairs, I cleaned our bedroom top to bottom and set up a folding conference table and set out chairs, so we can talk without being listened to. It's an adults only meeting. Husband says to just ask to hear all the allegations, and write them down. Not to address anything until all are said. Then comment. Then ask the therapist what she wants to see happen. I have no idea what emotional abuse allegations will be said, except maybe my counting number of days paper. Which I don't have any problem admitting to. So that's our strategy. It'll be just a matter of time when they leave and they start in on someone else, and I almost feel sorry for that someone else. Except that the someone else is probably believing all their BS and encouraging them right now.
There's always room for improvement?Amish, good luck in court. Can you turn it around on them and say they abuse you , which would be more the truth?
Magpie, hope your dog is ok
I need to go shopping and we need to go the farm store to get some grain, but we have 3 ewes left to go. One looks like she is not anywhere near ready, the other 2 probably soon. I want to be here if there are any more problems, plus I signed up for a free webseminar on Katahdin sheep this afternoon. Maybe it will help but I can't imagine anything we could do better. We can't live in the barn and watch them 24\7
I suppose I can go to the nearest crappy walmart and shop by myself, and husband can drive to the farm store and get the grain. It is supposed to rain today so sheep stay in
Congrats Urban, you are a year ahead of me.. KMA, love it. Bet many don't know the term. I'm going hard at dropping all our debt possible prior to that time.I'm off today, not working either! Went to the store, wife gave me a list.... Note to self, don't grocery shop on Monday mornings, all the shelves were empty... I picked up some lumber to do my next project. I am now 1 year away from my KMA date and 2 years away from full retirement! I have been focused on getting my major bills paid off, now I need to focus on learning to live on less. I would like to be in a position where the only thing that changes when I retire is I don't have to be on the electronic leash...