New client/ job today. Cousin of one of my older ladies. This man lost his wife last year and his daughter doesn't clean for him. She helps him a lot, but they decided the house needs regular attention! So hopefully all goes well!!
I think it's because we are all old.....the older you get the more people you know are going to die. My dad says he's the last one left...( he's 83)Why are we losing so many loved ones and friends lately?
all the sickness and bad luck?
well it turns out it IS worseI tell myself that all the time! And yes, it sure could be worse!!
I think you need a second opinion on those brake lines!!well it turns out it IS worse
So all the brake lines in the truck need replacing and they have to make them ( to fit the truck) so it will take 2 weeks min. We need this truck to haul animals in 2 weeks . I cannot reschedule the meat processor or the auction truck. So I have been looking to rent a truck but you can't rent one to haul stuff. I guess next we will ask our Amish neighbors to see who they get to haul their trailers....
I wonder if I can pull that trailer with my Yukon, but my luck IT will break.
So if our farming comes to an end it will be because of vehicle problems. How sad is that?! We can't afford $60000 and up for a new one ( I have never owned a new vehicle in my life either) , there are no used ones any better than what we have available, there are no parts, you can't rent one, you can't get anyone to fix anything in a reasonable amount of time. How in the world are we supposed to deal with this?
I think I am going to drink some wine....
The law of the universe got us again: if you are happy , something really bad will happen. We had a nice trip to go visit the daughter and grandbaby, the animals are doing well, the grass looks good, the market is going well and we are not sick....so the vehicle problems get us. Just like last year. At this rate even my money spell won't be able to keep up.....
No we saw the broken one...once one is rusted and needs replacing, you need to replace the whole thing. I don't want to drive in a truck with rusted out brake lines.I think you need a second opinion on those brake lines!!
Are you going to the Black Hills? A common comment about driving through S.D. is that it is flat and boring. It isn't for me, but that might be because it's my home state.We decided we would head out to South Dakota for a few days. We will leave early Thursday morning. Kind of a last minute decision but what the hell.
That is a tough thing to do to family. His death alone is one thing, but to take your own life adds to the pain and sorrow. We all have our demons.Finished my Wednesday by going to visit my mom at the nursing home. My friend's family had so many flowers from Jack's memorial that they insisted I take a vase full of peonies and daisies to my mom. They thought that those pretty flowers would be better off brightening up my mom's room, instead of in a house of mourning. Mom thought they were beautiful.
Then I got a message from my friends inviting me over to their house. I picked up a 6 pack of some strong IPA beer and a 6 pack of Corona and headed over with the beers on ice. They already had a bottle of Balvenie opened up when I got there. We sat out on the patio until 11pm, telling stories and sharing memories. There were tears flowing, but a lot of laughs too. The healing process has begun.
To those of you who may be struggling, reach out. Do it now. Jack left four adult children and a wife without any warning and no explanation. The only thing they can know for sure is that he was found slumped over in the front seat of his Gator, with a pistol in his hand and a bullet in his head. Don't leave your loved ones this way. Whatever is happening, can be overcome...
It appears that Jack's demons have come to light. One of the daughters just told me he had started antidepressants about 3 weeks before he died. Apparently he was one of the people who have bad reactions to antidepressants and he turned that inward and took his own life.That is a tough thing to do to family. His death alone is one thing, but to take your own life adds to the pain and sorrow. We all have our demons.
They are very expensive, small and cheaply made. I'm building mine using a lot of scrap materials and such. Some new wood, wire and hardware is mostly it cost wise. Few hundred dollars.ABR, last time I was at TSC, I looked at the prices on some of those ready-made coops for sale in the parking lot, and those coops were HELLER EXPENSIVE! I'm talking $1500 and more for the higher end models... needless to say, if I ever raise chickens here, it'll be in a homemade coop and enclosure, that's for danged sure.
P.S. However, I will shamelessly "borrow" design features from those fancy high-dollar coops, lol...
Are you going to the Black Hills? A common comment about driving through S.D. is that it is flat and boring. It isn't for me, but that might be because it's my home state.
I know the answer, you are in the Black Hills!Are you going to the Black Hills? A common comment about driving through S.D. is that it is flat and boring. It isn't for me, but that might be because it's my home state.
I don't blame anyone for that. Just a warning, you don't want to speed on a reservation. If you stick to the interstate cross state, you won't go on any. The tickets will cause you to choke. In 1970 someone I know got a ticket for around $250 and he wasn't going that much over the limit. When I go home I drive through Rosebud, Lower Brule and Crow Creek reservations. It is the one place I am very careful about my speed.I got to try the new diesel out on these straight flat roads ran 90 to 100 all the way across the state!
I will use caution and a good radar detector!I don't blame anyone for that. Just a warning, you don't want to speed on a reservation. If you stick to the interstate cross state, you won't go on any. The tickets will cause you to choke. In 1970 someone I know got a ticket for around $250 and he wasn't going that much over the limit. When I go home I drive through Rosebud, Lower Brule and Crow Creek reservations. It is the one place I am very careful about my speed.
I disagree. When I went to the Rapid City and Mount Rushmore area I thought it was all beautiful and I even had the thought of moving there. My ex, not so much, but she is my ex so take that with a grain of salt. I hope to revisit the area in the next year or two.Are you going to the Black Hills? A common comment about driving through S.D. is that it is flat and boring. It isn't for me, but that might be because it's my home state.
I completely agree but with what I saw in my many years as a Police Officer I learned one thing. If I am ever given the grim news about poor health and the end is near, when that time becomes obvious it will be on a very cold mountain top and a bottle or two of some darn good Bourbon. Go to sleep happy, the next morning very cold and pain free. I understand the result, but I have told my family and friends that is the choice I will make. I have seen the aftermath of many other methods and although the end is the same the method of getting there is very different. I know it is difficult for the friends, family, and loved ones but everyone needs to consider the issues of the primary person involved.That is a tough thing to do to family. His death alone is one thing, but to take your own life adds to the pain and sorrow. We all have our demons.