I agree! If they didn't say please don't post this anywhere, it's yours to post!
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So I have to admit that the place seems a bit empty right now. And to my surprise I find myself kind of missing one of those dogs. The smaller one was an annoying little **** machine that was basically a rat/cat/dog hybrid. But the big one was a pretty good animal to have around. Alerted me to activity faster than the cameras and was big enough to take on an intruder while I reload.
I would post a picture of it but I don't have its consent.
I would post a picture of it but I don't have its consent.
don't cave in now
Were those Pics Sent to You with an OK to post them for all to see, I Don't Think So... Don't You have any Respesct for those that gave their body to You in the privy of Your Bedroom...?!? You look around in all those threads and get back with just how many pics of Beautiful Revealing Body Parts are seen or Implicated...?!?
I would wager that most of the males on this site would Love to see naked females w/o posting them of the ones they have been with...
Often it is implied that the pic is for there eyes only tho ...
That said, I guess it is best to not send pics that would make you embarrassed after.
That said..I was young..well younger... hot n drunk a few too many times to not escape that era of my life.
Live n learn...
Perhaps tho I'd say it'd be wise to err on the side of privacy ..
I don’t want pictures of myself period, let alone on the net. A big part of that is OPSEC. The other part is privacy. Without express authority to publish he photo it is just rude. Also, she works for an airline, this could threaten he job if, although unlikely, the airline ever found out.
some of us were hoping for happily ever after thing
Check Posts #'s 228 n 230...!!!
She's taking and sharing her pictures! Her bad!
Lots of assumptions not in evidence there counselor. First you seem to be heavily focused on naked pictures for some reason even though I have never posted one and repeatedly stated I never would. That's a little off-putting.
Second, most of the pics I have posted were posted on my social media accounts or sent to me through apps like Snapchat by the person in the photo. Some via text message. Either way ALL of those places are as private as hanging a polaroid on the bulletin board of a grocery store. People who take a picture then send them to another person via a 3rd party app have pretty much waived their expectation of privacy. Let's not go fabricating victims or pretending that posting an all-age-appropriate photo of someone without a written and notarized letter of consent is disrespectful. It might surprise you to find out that millions of pictures are posted every day on Facebook, Instagram, Reddit, X and every other social media site. It's 2024 and we live in a digital world.
I am something of a troglodyte. I have never used the sites that you mentioned above. While I might post a picture of my dog no pictures of my friends or family will ever appear here, or anywhere else. Because I don’t want my picture posted I assume that others feel the same. That is not necessarily true.
Chapter 3. Rebound.
Went to the supper club, no table available, sat in the chairs for like 25 minutes before they called my name. As I was standing at the counter waiting to be escorted to the table a pleasant looking woman came in, no ring on her finger, and asked for a table. They told her no table was available and it would be a 30 minute wait, same thing they told me. I got her attention and told her she could share my table me as I was dining solo. She looked at me and said "Thanks, but I prefer to eat alone". I said we could pretend we're married and ignore each other the whole meal? That got a laugh and a pause, I thought for a second she would agree but she passed and sat down in the chairs. The wait staff took me to my table, I ordered a drink and started looking at the menu.
A few minutes later that lady appeared and said "Does you offer still stand?". I said absolutely, but since this wasn't a date I would not be able to pull out her chair for her. She said she would manage and sat down to the left of me. She said she texted her daughter from the lobby about my offer and her daughter responded with "And you said no? Come on mom, live a little". The daughter part caught me a bit by surprise, but then again this lady was close to my age so maybe it shouldn't have. Anyway for someone who wanted to dine alone she talked a lot, told me a lot and asked a lot of questions. Several drinks, lots of laughs and 2 plates of food later and she asked if I was the kind of man who would let a woman buy his dinner. I just replied that I loved strong independent women but I would only accept if I could pay when we went on our first date. She smiled, put both checks together and set her debit/credit card on top. Then she asked when we were going out on this first date. I looked at my watch and told her I was free tonight. She smiled, put her hand on my arm and said "Not until the 3rd date honey". Then we agree to get together Wednesday. Details to be determined before then.
I eventually walked her out to her car, she gave me a soft little kiss, we exchanged numbers, I thanked her for dinner, she asked which car was mine then rolled her eyes and asked if that was my mid-life crisis. I told her no, I just haven't grown up yet. I got a second little kiss, she got in her adult car and she drove off.
Not the wham bam thank you ma'am I am used to but still an unexpected and enjoyable evening.
Went to the supper club, no table available, sat in the chairs for like 25 minutes before they called my name. As I was standing at the counter waiting to be escorted to the table a pleasant looking woman came in, no ring on her finger, and asked for a table. They told her no table was available and it would be a 30 minute wait, same thing they told me. I got her attention and told her she could share my table me as I was dining solo. She looked at me and said "Thanks, but I prefer to eat alone". I said we could pretend we're married and ignore each other the whole meal? That got a laugh and a pause, I thought for a second she would agree but she passed and sat down in the chairs. The wait staff took me to my table, I ordered a drink and started looking at the menu.
A few minutes later that lady appeared and said "Does you offer still stand?". I said absolutely, but since this wasn't a date I would not be able to pull out her chair for her. She said she would manage and sat down to the left of me. She said she texted her daughter from the lobby about my offer and her daughter responded with "And you said no? Come on mom, live a little". The daughter part caught me a bit by surprise, but then again this lady was close to my age so maybe it shouldn't have. Anyway for someone who wanted to dine alone she talked a lot, told me a lot and asked a lot of questions. Several drinks, lots of laughs and 2 plates of food later and she asked if I was the kind of man who would let a woman buy his dinner. I just replied that I loved strong independent women but I would only accept if I could pay when we went on our first date. She smiled, put both checks together and set her debit/credit card on top. Then she asked when we were going out on this first date. I looked at my watch and told her I was free tonight. She smiled, put her hand on my arm and said "Not until the 3rd date honey". Then we agree to get together Wednesday. Details to be determined before then.
I eventually walked her out to her car, she gave me a soft little kiss, we exchanged numbers, I thanked her for dinner, she asked which car was mine then rolled her eyes and asked if that was my mid-life crisis. I told her no, I just haven't grown up yet. I got a second little kiss, she got in her adult car and she drove off.
Not the wham bam thank you ma'am I am used to but still an unexpected and enjoyable evening.
Oh no, your going to get all responsible, and F up the show,
Just received a "good morning" text from the rebound lady. She thanked me for sharing my table and asked about Wednesday. Seems like someone is excited for our date. I like where this is going. Now I just have to figure out where to take her and hope this 3rd date rule is more arbitrary than it sounds.
I like her already!
Have fun n go her pace..she could be that perfect independent gal pal friend with bennies where you can call to take out on a fun date or help you move a broke down fridge sorta lady friend then have a good shaggy after and not try to move in or stalk ya...
Atta boy marsh!
Just don't ever let her think there's more to it than what you want!
I think you're right.
Decided to go off the beaten path and take her to the zoo. She made a comment about taking her daughter to the zoo when she was younger but now she is too old for such things, so it will show I paid attention while she spoke to me and who doesn't like to see and feed big fuzzy animals? Then I will take her out for dinner at a jazz club / restaurant with live music. Seems like a good balance of whimsical and fun.
Just don't ever let her think there's more to it than what you want!
She may end up being my rebound lady, but that would make me her rebound guy. She is a divorcee with only a few months since it was finalized. Mostly because they owned a business together and it took a long time to figure out how to divide the assets. In total they have been separated and apart for over 2 years so the wound doesn't seem fresh. I will be her first "first date" in 20+ years and she already commented that she is open to having fun but nothing more.
Good choice on the zoo!! And the live music! Does that count as TWO dates??
Good choice on the zoo!! And the live music! Does that count as TWO dates??
Hmmmm. I think it does, and I will definitely be using that.
That sounds like so much fun!
And yes paying attention to little stuff will impress her I'm sure.
If you think she might be that perfect ..fun, no drama or crazy friend for you..don't push the sex part at all. Let her be the one to initiate.
..this gal probably hasent had a good shag in over a decade at least that doesn't require batteries ..Plus she had the same bowl of cereal for 20 years..I'm sure she is hankering for a wild romp with a sexy man ..but on her terms. She established that rule last night right..she paid..but you still got a sweet kiss..she's open.
Call your flight attendant or rub one out in between ..lol..
Pearl!! He will scare her off..Good choice on the zoo!! And the live music! Does that count as TWO dates??
this part of D 's life is way more fun than the previous part.
Our relationship counseling styles are a little different Hooch!!
But we are on the same page!!
No kidding!! We are ALL excited about Wednesday!!
Good thing we are here to help, lol!!Our relationship counseling styles are a little different Hooch!!
Good thing we are here to help, lol!!
I was doing okay on my own until the border jumper, then things went sideways one me. Now I clearly need assistance. On the other hand none of this would have happened if the rebound lady's daughter wouldn't have intervened, so apparently we both need help.
We all need help now n then..
The stage between extended teen and mid life can be a bit rough, Acting responsibly, the fantasy that women mean what they say ................. Shutin' up now.
Good luck...!!!
